Anna, 75, sent us a powerful letter that shook our readers. After a lifetime of hard work, she learned her family valued her money more than her love. Heartbroken but resolute, Anna made a bold choice: to finally put herself first.
Here’s her moving, dramatic story. Here’s an email Anna sent to us and her story:
“Hi Bright Side,
I just turned 75, and honestly, I thought I’d be surrounded by family and love by now. Instead, I got a birthday “gift” that made my stomach drop.
A bit of background: I worked as a nurse for 45 years: long shifts, weekends, holidays. I saved every penny, bought my house at 50, and built a modest retirement fund. Nothing extravagant, just enough to live comfortably.
My son (44) used to be kind. But somewhere along the way, I became “the money source.” His wife, Maya, keeps things polite but distant. The grandkids don’t know me unless there’s a check involved.
I’ve helped them a lot: paid for part of their house renovation, loaned money that was never paid back, and even gifted them a family vacation. But when I needed help after a bad fall, my son told me to “hire someone.”
This year, I invited them for a small birthday dinner. My son handed me an envelope and said, “Open it when you’re alone.” I thought it was a sweet card or maybe a photo.
Nope. It was a spreadsheet titled Mom’s Property and Market Value. Every item I own has a note about who should get it.
House, jewelry, stocks, all neatly “assigned.”
I sat there that night and cried. Not because they wanted my stuff, but because it finally clicked: they don’t love me. They love what I have.
So two weeks later, I called them over again and read my new will. Everything I own is going to an elder care home I support. My son turned red, Maya looked shocked, and the grandkids didn’t even glance up from their phones.
I haven’t heard from them since. And honestly, I feel lighter. But I still wonder, did I go too far?
Am I the bad guy here?”
Readers shared their raw opinions about Anna’s tough family situation:
quietpine_92:
You didn’t go too far at all. You worked your whole life and earned the right to decide what happens with what’s yours. If they only cared about your money, losing the inheritance is the least they deserve.
Mira.kay
I feel torn. I get why you did it, but cutting your family off completely… that’s huge. Maybe a smaller gesture could’ve made the point without ending the relationship.
user2021x
This broke my heart. My grandma went through something similar. People forget that money can be replaced, but once trust is gone, it’s over.
I hope you find peace with your choice. silverfish88:
I can kind of see it from your son’s side. Maybe he thought you’d want your assets to stay “in the family.” Not saying the spreadsheet was okay, but maybe it was clumsy, not cruel.
neoncat! The spreadsheet alone tells you everything you need to know. That’s not “practical,” it’s disrespectful.
You’re not a wallet. You’re their mother. brad_77:
You sound really hurt, and understandably so.
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