When my mom was a teen

 

When my mom was a teen, she visited her aunt’s house. In the kitchen, she found a loaf of rustic bread on the table—soft inside, toasted just right. Nobody else touched it, but she happily went for her third slice. That’s when her brother smirked and said, “You know that’s for the dog, right?” She nearly choked. Turns out Aunt Noura always baked leftover “dog bread” for her collie, Misty. Mom never lived it down—at family dinners she politely declined bread for years.

Decades later, food became no joke. At 14, I watched Mom get diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes. She gave up sweets, tracked carbs, and smiled through cravings. To help, I learned low-carb baking—almond muffins, stevia cheesecakes, date-sweetened brownies. She cried the first time she tasted one: “This feels like childhood.”

But soon her sugar spiked despite her diet. The truth slipped at a barbecue—her sister Layla confessed to swapping Mom’s low-carb bakes with “real” sweets because she thought Mom was “boring” at parties. It broke Mom’s heart.

The fallout was messy—old sibling rivalries, years of resentment—but eventually, Layla made a real apology. She even learned to bake sugar-free treats herself, burning plenty along the way. By the next Eid, Mom brought pistachio ma’amoul, Layla brought low-carb date balls, and everyone chose their desserts first.

We took a photo that day: three generations, flour on our shirts, arms around each other. On our fridge now, it reminds me that what started with “dog bread” became a story about trust, forgiveness, and showing love in the kitchen. Because in the end, it’s never about the bread—it’s about who’s willing to stay and bake with you again.

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