My name is Marissa, I’m 49, and last month I accepted a janitor position at my son Logan’s university. I’m a single mom who has spent years juggling two—sometimes even three—jobs just to keep our little world from falling apart. Every tuition bill, every textbook, every late-night meal… I worked for it. So when this campus job opened up—steady hours, good benefits, close to home—it felt like the first real blessing I’d had in a long time.
But Logan didn’t see it that way.
When I told him the news, expecting at least a smile, he practically recoiled.
“YOU got a job here? As a janitor? Mom, that’s embarrassing! What if my friends see you?”
I swear I felt something inside me crumble. I tried to brush it off, even attempted a weak joke: “If it bothers you that much, just pretend you don’t know me.”
He didn’t laugh. He didn’t even look conflicted. He just shook his head and walked out of the room.
The next day, I went to work with a knot in my stomach. I was assigned to clean one of the main academic buildings, the kind bustling with students and faculty. As I was wiping down a row of glass doors, I heard familiar footsteps and laughter echoing down the hallway. Logan and his friends.
I braced myself to be ignored—that would have hurt, yes—but what actually happened cut so much deeper.
He looked directly at me, then turned to his friends and said loudly, “Ugh, the cleaning crew always leaves streaks on the glass. Don’t touch anything, guys—you never know what they drag in.”
And he said it while staring straight at me. Like I was a stranger. Like I was beneath him.
His friends laughed. One even wrinkled his nose.
My hands trembled around the cloth. I felt myself shrinking, wishing I could melt into the floor. But I just kept wiping the same spot over and over because stopping would’ve broken me completely.
That night, I confronted him.
“Why would you talk about me like that?”
He shrugged.
“I told you not to work here. You didn’t listen. Don’t make this my fault.”
No apology. No guilt. Just… dismissal.
I’m heartbroken. I’ve sacrificed everything for this boy, and he tossed me aside to look cool for five seconds. I’m torn—should I quit the job I desperately need? Should I push him to understand how deeply he hurt me? Or should I step back and let him feel the consequences of his choices?
I keep wondering… am I overreacting?
